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Welcome to Tales of a Boundary Ninja

Welcome to Tales of a Boundary Ninja. I am a long term therapy client who has learned a lot along the way, from a lot of sources, the most important of which was a really superb therapist I affectionately call the Boundary Ninja. (H/T to Strummergirl for the name!) This blog is a place for me to share the insights and knowledge I have gathered on my healing journey. Which leads me to the required disclaimer. Attachment theory was key to my healing and I approach most things therapeutic through an attachment lens. This is quite clearly NOT the only modality available for psychotherapy, nor is it the approach that will help everyone. I believe each person pursues a unique healing path, which unfolds for them and will never take quite the same route another person’s would. But sometimes we get within shouting distance of each other and being able to share about the stuff that is similar can help us steer more clearly and give us strength for the road. So take all this for what it is worth, one struggling, chaotic,  messy human being’s gleanings. And awesome quotes from a quintessential therapist. Enjoy!

  1. nydvc
    October 6, 2011 at 6:15 pm

    Here’s to a new adventure. 🙂


  2. October 6, 2011 at 9:51 pm

    I love this blog! Thank you for making it…


    • October 6, 2011 at 10:09 pm

      Muffinmaiden (awesome name!) thanks for reading and your support. 🙂


  3. Jones
    October 7, 2011 at 2:31 am

    So exciting to have these writings available here. So many good wishes for your voyage with this blog – I’m definitely on board. Love, Jones


    • October 7, 2011 at 10:10 am

      Welcome aboard Jones! This would never have happened without your support and encouragement so it’s very good to have you here! 🙂


  4. hopeful
    October 13, 2011 at 2:46 pm

    I love your blog AG. You’re so inspiring!


  5. Emma
    October 31, 2014 at 3:33 pm


    I just wanted to say I have just finished reading through all of your blogs and I wanted to let you know you have been a real comfort (and just as importantly someone who has helped me push past my defenses ) in dealing with what’s happening in my therapy. It’s truly helped me to see through some very dark moments of fear and made me be brave when I have really wanted to just hide away….. I really want to thank you for writing, you have a eloquent way of putting things that just resonate so soundly 🙂 Emma x


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